La famiglia come istituzione, come progetto, come valore.

The family as an institution, as a project, as the value. The survey conducted in 2005 among children of upper V of the province of Udine (Batic, Fabbro, 2006) have shown that the experience of parental separation on children ages the ability to reflect on the experience of placing a family perspective external observation, managing to capture the feelings and the emotional dynamics between parents and continue to draw important considerations for understanding and reworking the event happened. This work has set itself the objective of verifying if the experience of separation affects the role models of children from the family as an institution, as a project of life and also as a value From a careful reading of the data it perceives that it is an ongoing shift from institutional to the personal dimension in the understanding of the family. It seems to be the legal institution of marriage, which is losing share, or family law, while the individual is placed at the center of their lives. It should be safeguarded and the happiness of people, rather than the forced union with a partner inadequate, it is preferable to a separation that brings balance and inner peace. And if you come to realize this condition to form a new family, the boys recognize that this may be a good choice. In modern society the institution of marriage seems outdated (it thinks about half of the children of separated but also one third of the children of couples together), and the application of a logistic regression model showed that kids who have a peaceful relationship with his father have a probability of 27% higher to believe in the institution marriage than those who have a relationship with his father and the boys who accept the separation have a probability of 27% higher to believe in marriage as an institution than peers who think differently. There finally emerges is no relationship between the experiences of parents and children have the idea that the family institution. The family is therefore not an institution but it becomes obsolete or dead project and value especially when the relationship with their parents is positive. The family is one of the core values of love and friendship together and it is observed that the family does not live in a separate increases of 68% less likely to recognize the value to the family, compared to being the children of separated parents. A good relationship with the mother doubles the likelihood that the family is seen as a value, while a good relationship with the father increases by 50%. In conclusion, a good relational atmosphere with the mother and the father does internalize the model of family life and thus makes him not only the model but also value. To make the family a life project confirms the key role of the father who, when it compares favorably with his son, manages to convey a sense of family and its value as a place to substantiate a relationship of love and construct a path of life together.